Speakup your mind

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People "talk" less often these days. The verbal expression that gives a true sense of care and love is diminishing. We prefer to show our love and care digitally, through emojis and texts. But what about the basic essence of having a conversation? Aren't we missing that?

Are we sure that we are able to convey our feelings through these texts and emojis? Even if we can articulate well, are we confident that the other person would be able to read between the lines, look into the eyes of the emojis and understand our feelings? This lack of emotion is affecting our daily life as stress, misunderstanding between friends, partners and parents. Even our kids are not spared. This is the dark side of the digital world.

Fortunately, little effort is required to keep the things in place. Make it a habit of talking regularly with your friends, partners, parents and kids, verbally. Spend some time with them. Make them feel your love and care for them. If there's something bothering you, ask them. Clear your doubts. Minor issues grow big if kept for long. It's always better to clear misunderstanding. Even if we pretend to ignore them, they are not gone. They are there in our subconscious mind and keep growing. Speak up whatever you have in your mind. If you are wrong, you will be corrected, and if you are right, your partner will definitely hear you out. Don't just keep the things to yourself, especially when it is about your relationship. It's good to speak up!

Silence is good, when you are in a fight, break this up when you are in doubt!




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